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ON THE ROAD

P1040716Happy Autumn!

Few images are more iconic than the open road.

One of the grand and simple pleasures this country has to offer is a road trip-and so I am off to see, for the first time, Niagara Falls.

I will be leaving New York City in a rented car (It won’t be anything as classic as the one pictured here-a pristine 1971 Le Mans Sport which according to the loving owner has retained its original condition.), and seeking a route where lakes, agricultural plains, small towns and cities will be my inspiration.

My quest is to experience Americana: to discover local history, cuisine,  geography and culture while welcoming conversations with others who live on this land.

I will do my best to keep you posted while I’m on the road.

Best wishes for those celebrating, on Wednesday, the new year 5775!

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SNAPSHOT #3

P1040674Sometimes a moment lingers and the memory it produces is like a snapshot.

On an unassuming street a block from the East River in Williamsburg, Brooklyn stands a cavernous space. The inhabitants never had, or have conquered, a fear of flying. But do not expect talk of airplanes.

The dancers who come here to rehearse swing on trapezes high overhead, jump while atop enormous hamster wheels, and dive off scaffolding three tiers high yelling. “FLY!” The thick padding beneath them does nothing to ease the trepidation of this spectator. Extraordinary strength, prowess, camaraderie, fearlessness and bliss is on display.

What I am witness to, literally takes my breath away.

The Streb Lab For Action Mechanics (SLAM) was founded by Elizabeth Streb and is open to the public.

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STILL GATHERING MY THOUGHTS

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Thank you subscribers and readers  for taking the time to visit my blog!!

I’ll be back on Monday and would be delighted, in the meantime, if you would look through my previous posts. Perhaps you missed a few or will reread one with a new perspective.There is a list of all the previous posts by title and date.

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Thank you for taking the time to read my post! Welcome to the tales of a woman solo traveler and thoughts to make today the start of something new. I hope you find information and inspiration in the text and images and join me in my quest for growth, wonderment and self-improvement.

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Here’s to new discoveries near and far!

Enjoy the day.

 

GATHERING MY THOUGHTS

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Thank you subscribers and readers  for taking the time to visit my blog!!

I’ll be back on Monday and would be delighted, in the meantime, if you would look through my previous posts. Perhaps you missed a few or will reread one with a new perspective.There is a list of all the previous posts by title and date.

Since the configuration of the site may differ on your browser, perhaps you have not noticed the tabs which offer some additional information:Why this blog?, Photographs, How I Began, etc.

You can search certain posts by category: Practical Advice, Thoughts on Oneself, Snapshots, etc.

All of these may be at the very bottom of the posts.

While traveling I may not be posting each day. To be notified when I have written a new post please subscribe. I would be delighted if you would sign up.

Thank you for taking the time to read my post! Welcome to the tales of a woman solo traveler and thoughts to make today the start of something new. I hope you find information and inspiration in the text and images and join me in my quest for growth, wonderment and self-improvement.

Here’s to new discoveries near and far!

Enjoy the days.

FAIR IS FAIR

IMG_3874Certain countries do not seem to list any prices for their goods. The locals apparently know the costs. But this doesn’t help a traveler much as some vendors will intentionally overcharge and expect to engage in haggling or elicit thoughts of caveat emptor.

In the past, while traveling in India, asking how much something cost would entail playing part in an elaborate game. Bantering and bargaining would ensue and a price was met…or not. But either way, frequent negotiations were exhausting.

Of course  seeing what the locals are paying is optimal,  but not always feasible.

Now if I suspect that asking the price will not yield the actual cost, I resist all inquiries,  simply hand over what I assume is appropriate and wait for the change. It is possible that I have legitimately made an underestimation, and the seller will not hesitate to let me know, but the exchange is likely to be fair.

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STREET FOOD

P1040190Traveling in countries where I do not speak the language offers certain challenges, particularly when finding something to eat. But with street food, quantity and cost can be conveyed with fingers and the ingredients are usually self evident. Ease, however is not the main appeal. Primarily, it is a means of being part of the local culture and daily life. The people preparing and eating the food are almost always locals. I have spent countless, pleasurable moments sitting on stools, a curb, perhaps at a tiny table or just standing while eating something fresh and usually made to order.

The sellers may offer just a few items, sometimes only one, so it is often his or her speciality. You can almost be certain it is going to be good.

One of my fondest memories lingers from Thailand, many years ago. On two or three occasions I ordered Som Tum, the green papaya salad, from the same seller; his cart was just large enough to hold the few ingredients in a small display case. I would say “Som Tum” with a smile and he would get to work, slicing, cutting, mixing, preparing and then the moment came. He would hold up a very hot chili pepper as his way of enquiring how many I wanted. The cuisine there can be notoriously spicy. The locals might ask for four or more, but I would timidly raise a single figure to indicate only one. I suspect he already knew my answer, but each time he chuckled kindly as he put the finishing touches in place.

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IT’S WHERE I’VE BEEN

P1040010When I first started traveling for any extended period of time there would inevitably be someone asking me if I had been there? or there? or there? and anything but an affirmative answer chipped away at the overall satisfaction of my trip. I would be nurturing this nagging disappointment about all the places I had missed.

Travel requires making choices and it is, of course, impossible to go everywhere.

It took some time, but I no longer allow these questions to perturb me. If I missed something that seems fabulous, I can now hope to return.

But perhaps more importantly I have learned to cherish the places where I’ve been.

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HOSPITALITY IN MONGOLIA

P1040043Mongolia has a long standing tradition of hospitality; food and lodging is offered to anyone, free of charge. Nomadic cultures necessitate it for survival. Some gift, when possible, might be offered in exchange.

P1040041Khovsgol Lake is a popular vacation destination (by Mongolian standards) in the north. I found a ride to one of its shores dotted with tourist camps, which I had hoped to avoid.

Walking further up the coast, accommodations became rare so I was relieved and delighted to meet a couple who sold fish and offered me a private “guest ger”. They provided me with wood for the stove, a thermos of hot water to make tea, a jerrycan of water for washing, sheets and blankets; all I would need for a comfortable stay. They asked for 10,000 tugrik (about$6/night). A delicious lunch of fish, potatoes, onions and salad was prepared for a small additional fee. It was a quiet and beautiful location. Our communication was limited to the three or four common words we shared but their kindness was evident.

Taking a walk some distance from my ger, I noticed a few yaks, two horses and as I neared, an older man cradling a baby.  An older woman soon joined him.  I continued my approach, smiled, greeted them with a hello and was quickly ushered in to sit on the hard seat/bed in their sparsely furnished ger. Without hesitation the woman offered me tea, a large slab of fresh baked bread and two bowls. One contained delectable, mild, yak butter and the other was soon filled with freshly made yogurt. I savored each sip and bite and had to gently refuse her additional helpings. There was an ease between us and somehow we made our inquiries understood.

We lingered awhile longer. Soon after, with a thank you, I headed back to my ger returning a short time later with some small gifts: a writing pad, pen and soap. She received them with delight. I said goodbye and while I was walking away she called, hurried towards me and placed two smoked fish (a regional delicacy) in a bag for me to take on my way.

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CUTTING COSTS

P1030222Travel is often thought of as a luxury. Besides time, it requires money. However, there are certain choices we can make to achieve our goal more readily.

If you have not already done so, consider getting a credit card that offers frequent flyer miles. It can be a long term project, but it will pay off. I have flown using Am Ex Delta skymiles several times. But, I travel with Capitol One and Capitol One 360 ; neither incur foreign transaction fees.

Stay near to home, travel by car or choose a destination that is relatively inexpensive once you get there. Fortunately there are numerous websites proposing special airfares; just make sure they are reputable.

Countries with ample local transportation can reduce your need for expensive taxis and tours.

Compromise some comforts for simpler accommodations: consider camping, staying in hostels or becoming a member of Couchsurfing. There are agencies like Airbnb with a huge range of budget options. Look into swapping your home with another elsewhere, or house-sitting. You might sublet your place while away.

Places off season are usually less expensive and willing to negotiate their rates.

Budget travel  http://www.budgettravel.com/ is one of many sites with travel tips.  I just gave it a look and saw many deals and ideas.

Eat with the locals. Many countries have fantastic cuisine at a fraction of the price you will pay in tourist restaurants. But like everything else, be selective, you want the experience to be memorable for the right reasons. Picnics are inexpensive and fun.

Overall, do not let the cost of travel deter you. With the web at your fingertips, a little imagination, and some flexibility you can undoubtedly organize a voyage within your means.

Thank you for taking the time to read my post! Welcome to the tales of a woman solo traveler and thoughts to make today the start of something new. I hope you find information and inspiration in the text and images and join me in my quest for growth, wonderment and self-improvement.
 

STILL STROLLING

I’ll be back on Monday and would be delighted, in the meantime, if you would look through my previous posts. Perhaps you missed a few or will reread one with a new perspective.

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Thank you for taking the time to read my post! Welcome to the tales of a woman solo traveler and thoughts to make today the start of something new. I hope you find information and inspiration in the text and images and join me in my quest for growth, wonderment and self-improvement.