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BOMBAY TO KATHMANDU PART III: NEPAL

P1030017The trip from Varanasi to Kathmandu entailed a lengthy, sometimes harrowing, but ultimately safe bus ride. Sitting by an open window on the side of the exhaust pipe however, had not been particularly wise. My face when I arrived was completely blackened by the fumes. The other passengers and I disembarked from the bus and walked a short distance across the Nepalese border sometime in the night. The official area was dimly lit offering just enough illumination to make out the lines of the faces before us. We waited while a bureaucrat perfunctorily stamped our passports. It reminded me of scenarios I’d seen in the films from the 40’s. All of us then walked to an accommodation to spend the night. The place was comfortable but spare. One large room was filled with rows of wooden cots with woven mats. The exhausting day of travel provided a wonderful incentive for deep slumber.
The next morning we set off on the same bus for Kathmandu.
My first impression of Nepal was the absence of cattle. It was a relief not to constantly maneuver amongst the bovines standing and lying in the Indian streets with their long sharp horns passively threatening any passersby. In this land, the cow was no longer sacred.
The end of my travels was nearing. I met a woman from Holland and after we were sated with westernized cuisine and shops of Kathmandu, which reminded me of NYC’s Greenwich Village, we set out to see the countryside.
While spending a day in a small village, a young boy approached us. He spoke enough English to offer himself as our guide. We strolled together for some time and he led us to a hill where the Himalayas dominated the distant view. We wanted to offer him something for his time and services, but weren’t sure what amount of money to give a boy of nine or ten. Then we recalled the price for a can of Coca-Cola and thought the same amount would be appropriate. We discovered later that the price of a Coca-Cola in those parts was about the earning of a man’s daily wage.
The time passed quickly and soon I was heading home. My friend kindly saw me off at the airport and as the plane ascended I could see that she was waving to me from the ground below.

 

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TAKE SOME TIME TO SEE SOMETHING NEW

P1040332Thank you subscribers and readers for taking the time to visit my blog!!

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TIME FOR SEEING THE FAMILIAR ANEW

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BOMBAY TO KATHMANDU PART II: INDIA

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This was the first time I was traveling solo outside of the States or Europe. I bought the requisite Lonely Planet Guide and focused on visiting Rajasthan.
Arriving into Bombay I flew over endless shanty towns; a vivid image of squalor and a precursor to the massive concentration of lives. Many a step in India entailed something or someone to contend with.
I was quickly introduced to Paan, made from betel leaves with an array of unknown ingredients, from a fellow traveler with Indian roots. It is placed in the mouth and chewed. This controversial item, with risks similar to tobacco, is sold on the street. The preparation is a show in itself, but the vendor’s smearing of the ingredients with his unwashed fingers diminished my curiosity and challenged my notions of sanitation. It would not be the last time I noted a different standard of hygiene from what I was accustomed.
I experienced culture shock daily: Seals on bottled water had to be checked carefully. I was told that kids refilled them with street water, then sold them. I was cautioned to insure my letters were postmarked at the post office, otherwise the stamp might be taken off and used again. The list goes on, but perhaps the most daunting was enduring bus rides with drivers who played “chicken” while evidence of this game’s risks lie on the sides of the road. It made me yearn for a country less confident in reincarnation.
However, the chance to visit Udaipur, Jaipur, Jodhpur, Pushkar, Khajuraho, and the Taj Mahal, amongst other extraordinary places and sights, was not to be missed.
This was my most challenging journey, a touch of dysentery notwithstanding, but the country’s colors, sounds, odors, flavors, people and chaos has an indescribable draw.
My last stop in India was Varanasi, where I debated most of an evening with two Irish doctors doing their residency there. We spoke at length about the people’s faith in the sacred Ganges vs. its dangers.
I continued on to Nepal.

 

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BOMBAY TO KATHMANDU PART I: SINGAPORE

My plan was to spend six weeks, traveling from Bombay to Kathmandu by land, employing primarily buses and trains. IMG_4246I purchased a flight from NY to Bombay on Singapore Airlines. My knowledge of geography was lacking and I failed to note the circuitous flight. But the price was great and the airline superb. Given the required stopover in Singapore, I decided to stay 3 days.

Singapore in its quest to modernize learned too late that its lovely, old, wooden buildings were precious remnants from its past. All were razed, except for a small area, in its extremely successful campaign.  Seeking the historical buildings and local cuisine, I found a small shop and ordered noodle soup. I’d become adept at using chopsticks years before, but these noodles kept slipping back into the bowl.  After several futile attempts my belly was growling for action. Fortunately, my plight engendered the aide of a lovely couple sitting nearby. The secret was to place the noodles onto a spoon, using the chopsticks, and eat them from there. (This technique has helped me throughout the years.) We began speaking. They were retired English teachers, and asked if I would like to visit, “People’s Park”. The imposing skyscrapers and abundant cement made the offer enticing-a respite of green- and I gratefully accepted their invitation, but moments later barely contained my disappointment to discover “People’s Park” was a shopping mall! Not a blade of grass was in attendance. The couple’s pride in the economic advancements of their tiny nation was understandable, but the nation’s soul seemed traded in the deal. I was grateful for their pressing appointment and my quick getaway.
I wandered over to Raffles, a hotel, emblematic of the country’s colonial past. It was worth a visit just to sip a signature Singapore Sling  in the bar while imagining days of old, even if few vestiges remain. While wandering the grounds I met a traveler who had been to India. Regarding my imminent arrival she said, “When you get sick there…..(offering me some advice I have since forgotten).” And I replied, “You mean, IF I get sick.” But she insisted on “when”.  I wasn’t too pleased with her fatalistic outlook; my time in India still lie ahead.

 

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KEEPING THINGS SAFE

When I was in Bombay, now Mumbai,  I found a pair of cat’s eye sunglasses circa 1950’s in a tiny shop along one of the boisterous avenues. I liked them very much, but I was hesitant to buy them because of their P1050117apparent fragility. The vendor listened to my concern and responded with, “You will lose them before they break.”

That was almost twenty years ago.

The other day I was looking through a box where I keep my journals and spied a hard plastic case that I’d forgotten. Lying inside, looking not one day worse for wear were these glasses. They were neither broken nor lost, but they had been rarely worn these years and years.

Perhaps it is best to wear them now and often. I’ll enjoy that, and take my chances.

 

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WASHING DISHES

P1000985When I was a kid, I liked to wash dishes. It was a time to play in a seemingly endless flow of water. Living in NY, rain is abundant and something I took very much for granted.

It was not until I was older and visiting a friend abroad, that I gained an entirely different perspective. I arrived just after her lunch. She had a small plastic tub, that fit in her sink, and filled it with a few inches of water. She soaped the plates and utensils, then rinsed. The water consumption was negligible.

I have since been on lands where water is treated as the precious commodity it is and the cleansing of plates is done with sand.

By watching someone do the dishes, we might guess, rather accurately, the geography in which he/she was raised. At the very least, it reminds me of those who never took water for granted.

 

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THE______ARE______

Why is it that people feel so comfortable categorizing people by saying,”The______are______.”?P1040295

Inductive reasoning can serve us well. Burning ourselves after sipping a boiling cup of tea need only occur once. But when it comes to people, this logic fails us. We love to form opinions and view the world through a lens of presumptions, but we do others, and ourselves, a disservice by thinking of people as if formed by some nationally designed cookie cutter.

Writing, the other day, of my time cycling through France reminded me of the endless kindnesses shown by the locals. Directions, hospitality, food, drink, and lending helping hands to our motley group was common. The gestures were generous and genuine.

But entering the chateaus of the Loire Valley, a tourist area, a few employees were curt and unrecognizable from the dozens of people I had previously met. Overhearing some visitors it was clear that they were embracing this skewed impression of the French to be the norm.

When people discover I am an American, they are quick to make assumptions, and perhaps some of them are true but each of us is far more complex than a simplified, singular label.

It might take a little more effort to view each person as an individual, but the rewards of truth vs prejudice clearly outweigh the means.

 

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A NEW DAY TOO

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A NEW DAY

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