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HIALEAH RACE TRACK

P1040063While talking about Florida a few days ago, I recalled my experience working at Hialeah Race Track. I had studied horse husbandry in high school and a friend from this program had found employment with the renown trainer of everyone’s darling, Secretariat. I would fly down to spend about a month. It was during winter break of my first semester in college and my initial experience on an airplane.

People usually associate horse racing with big money. But I was working on the lowest rung of the hierarchy at the backstretch. My job, as a hotwalker, entailed walking the thoroughbreds after their morning workouts until they were cool. My day began hours before dawn and ended in the early afternoon, I worked seven days a week, made about $62 for that week, and loved every minute of it.

I had previously been employed at Belmont, would spend the next summer at Saratoga, but Hialeah was a different kind of adventure- I was far from home. The neighborhood I lived in was predominantly Cuban and I would practice the little Spanish I knew when ordering the delicious, inexpensive, specials of meat, fish or chicken, rice, beans and platanos. I shared a motel room with my three friends, all women. We doubled up on the pull-out couch and bed.

During the early hours of the day we worked and on occasion took in the nightlife. But I recall most of our time hanging out by the motel pool.

Money was tight.

However our bellies were always sated. When we weren’t treating ourselves to the local Cuban or Chinese cuisine we subsisted largely on peanut butter, banana and honey sandwiches. It was for me a new combination of ingredients I never tired of.

I enjoy them still.

CHERRY BLOSSOMS AND MORE

20150425_161744The Brooklyn Botanic Garden is usually the perfect destination to seek solitude and quiet while communing with nature, but during the Cherry Blossom Festival held each spring, the grounds are transformed. The crowd and sounds are impressive with good reason. Although this year the date did not correspond with the esplanade in full bloom there were still enough trees and tulips and events to warrant the visitors’ awe.

Amongst many scheduled activities, including traditional Japanese arts, games and music, there was the Sakura Matsuri Cosplay Fashion Show. I noted that numerous visitors, seemingly all in their twenties, wore an array of elaborate hairdos, make-up and attire. Large animal-like ears, wigs, parasols, swords, wispy gowns, contact lens of unusual hues, garments befitting action heroes, geishas, aliens, and nymphs were donned. Assuming there was a theme or characters unknown to me, I asked a woman wearing some aspects of the above mentioned what her costume was. She replied that she was not wearing a costume. This was how she dressed every day. Was that true for everyone strolling the grounds? I can’t say.

A QUILL PEN

2015-04-22 22.38.50My thoughts return often to our daily lives being altered by technology. It is becoming increasingly pervasive; each day there seems to be mention of something new.

I compare the world of my parents or even mine as a child with that of today; the revolutionary advancements are without precedent.
How we lived a thousand years ago undoubtedly differed from our lives a few hundred years ago, but not as markedly so. We are adapting to change at an unfathomable rate-whether for better or for worse.

I am particularly concerned about the younger generations. Will they forgo the ways of old entirely? Will they shun books and the appreciation of paper? Will letter writing, which has already declined considerably, become obsolete? Will learning to fold a newspaper just so be a quaint notion of the past?

Perhaps my concern for the youth is shielding a greater fear of my own.

Will I no longer engage in activities that I’ve always held so dear? Is change and the adjustment to technology simply inevitable?

Can one still find merit in writing with a quill pen?

A PAPER TRAIL

imageThe other day a friend and I were talking about her upcoming trip to Greece.

I recalled her friend who had kindly housed me on a visit to Athens a few decades ago. She had fallen out of touch with him and was wondering if I still had his address. It was his family’s home and suspected he would be living there still.

Such began my search through a series of personal phone books that I’ve never had the heart to throw away. Turning the pages led me on a journey through my past. Names both familiar, and less so, of people appeared. Some I had not seen or thought of in years. Some I had only known briefly, perhaps just a day during one of my travels. Although most conjured a face and moments shared, others I could not recall at all.

It took a bit of effort, but I eventually located the address and phone number of her friend.

I do not know when I will be looking through these pages again, but a voyage through time awaits me when I do.

ROBYN DAVIDSON QUOTE #2

“To be free is to learn, to test yourself constantly, to gamble. It is not safe. I had learnt to use my fears as stepping stones rather than stumbling blocks.” Robyn Davidson

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ROBYN DAVIDSON QUOTE #1

“The two important things that I did learn were that you are as powerful and strong as you allow yourself to be, and that the most difficult part of any endeavour is taking the first step, making the first decision.” Robyn Davidson

Thank you subscribers and readers for taking the time to visit my blog!!

If this is the first time you are visiting the site, welcome to the tales of a woman solo traveler and thoughts to make today the start of something new.

Although I take a break during the weekends, I’ll be back on Monday and would be delighted, in the meantime, if you would look through my previous posts. Perhaps you missed a few or will reread one with a new perspective.There is a list of all the previous posts by title and date.

Since the configuration of the site may differ on your browser, perhaps you have not noticed the tabs which offer some additional information:Why this blog?, Images, How I Began, etc.

You can search certain posts by category: Practical Advice, Thoughts on Oneself, Snapshots, etc.

All of these may be at the very bottom of the posts.

While traveling I may not be posting each day. To be notified when I have written a new post please subscribe-of course its free.
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I hope you find information and inspiration in the text and images and join me in my quest for growth, wonderment and self-improvement.

Here’s to new discoveries near and far!

Enjoy the days.

DOING ONES DUTY

20150423_134014The summons arrived about a month ago requiring me to show up for jury duty. It is roughly the fourth time I have been called over the years.

The arrival time of 8:30 was met with a long line not dissimilar to the one I experienced at the airport the previous day; guards are in attendance, as are metal detectors, and x-ray machines. The jurors then congregate in a large room where the speaker informs us of the proceedings and taboos of the day. All is conveyed in a booming voice with an inclusion of amusing anecdotes in an attempt, I suspect, to not only keep the public engaged but the speaker himself who repeats these words day after day. Although some are already distracted by their fatigue or phones, most of us appear to be listening. And then the waiting begins, potentially for the entire day.

Although my residing borough of Brooklyn has a diverse demographic, I note the sparsity of white skin. It is difficult to ascertain, but there also seems to be a predominant attendance of the working-class( perhaps many who are most vulnerable to losing the day’s pay).

After some hours I am called for a case regarding injuries sustained in an accident. I am not chosen for this trial and return to the large room to wait again. Ninety minutes for lunch and a walk outside is a welcome reprieve.

By 4:30 those of us not chosen to participate in a trial are told we have met our obligation and will not be called again for eight years. The collective relief is palpable.

The judicial system has many imperfections. Yet I recognize that participating in part is a crucial component to ensure that our basic rights are not denied.

 

COMING HOME TO NEW YORK

20150422_223553Despite the clichéd and ubiquitous slogan, I love New York.

No matter how much I have enjoyed being elsewhere, coming home to New York is always welcome. But even those we love have their faults and my experience at the JFK airport(chaos reigns at the security and customs areas) sadly does not put this great city in a positive light.

But time passes and I am inevitably on my way.

Arriving late, I take a taxi home. As is true for the vast majority of drivers I encounter, mine this evening is from a different land. His accent and appearance suggest he comes from South Asia.

When his phone rings , I am startled to hear his choice of ring tones. It is an Irish jig.

I love New York.

MOMENTS ON THE METRO

imageWhile in Paris I am walking, bicycling, or taking the metro to get from one place to another. All have their distinct advantages in getting to see and know the city. In the metro, because it usually lacks a view, I note the people around me.

Many passengers are engaged in solitary activities increasingly dominated by their electronic devices, but books and newpapers remain prevalent and conversations continue to pass the time. The languages spoken are diverse as are the shades of skin. Attire varies. Some seem oblivious of the clime. Some simply catch my eye.

There was a young woman sitting opposite me with a book in hand. What caught my attention was a pink pressed flower lying on the page. I have forgotten the last time I took a flower and did the same. The delicate appearance belied its use as I observed when she got up to exit the train. Its lovely form was marking the place of her page.

FINDING BALANCE WITH THE NEW

imageI am not one to run out and buy the latest model or the newest invention. On the contrary, it may be sometime before I catch up with owning what has been deemed a “must-have”. This was true with computers, e-mail, cell phones, and ipads. Yet, they have all become part of my daily life and to do without them would now be a great inconvenience.

I have just learned to take photos with my phone, modify them if desired (like the image with this post), send them electronically to my ipad and have them ready for this blog all in a matter of minutes (of course the ipad is a camera with effects too). Even with the little I know, the possibilities seem endless.

Years ago I associated computers with stifling our imaginations, and there still exists that risk, but overall I am dazzled by all the things these gadgets can do.

However, I seek a proper balance with the cherished knowns of old and the ever enticing new.